My Beginners Guide to Ball Gags!

Calisinn
Nov 28, 2025
2 min read

From their ability to instantly establish an intense power exchange dynamic - to the delightful muffled moans of My slutty submissive... ball gags are a staple in My wicked BDSM toy collection!

Balls gags are a common request in My sessions for a reason - they are functional, set an exciting power exchange dynamic and pack an oh, so sexy punch!

What is a Ball Gag? How Do They Work?

A ball gag is typically a rubber or silicone sphere with a strap running through it. The ball is held in your bratty little mouth... settling safely behind your teeth. The strap is wrapped around your head to keep it snugly in place. The results are instant! Speech becomes muffled.. drooling kicks in.. and your submissive vibe gets dialed up!

What are Balls Gags Made of?

Rubber: A classic choice. These offer a firm feel and are easy to maintain.
Silicone: Soft, flexible and easy to clean. Silicone is My favourite material to use in session, for comfort and hygeine.
Wiffle style: Some balls have holes (like a wiffle ball). This allows for better air flow, making them more beginner friendly.

What to Look For in a Ball Gag:

Size: If you are new or have a small mouth - start small (1.5"). Choose a bigger ball (2" +) if you are are experienced with wearing and playing in one .

Fit: Look for adjustable straps. These are great for a ensuring a snug fit.

Purpose: Gags have been delightfully used in My sessions for a light intro... or a full on challenge!

Safety First:

Ball gags are wicked fun - but they come with responsibility!

Jaw Fatigue: I start with short sessions (10-20 minutes), to avoid painful jaw strain.
Non-verbal Communication: Since talking is off the table... (haha!) - My playmates and I establish straight forward safe word signals.
Cleaning: I sterilize all of My toys, gear and gags with medical grade sanatizer or purchase new gear for each submissive in My harem. I encourage you to bring your own personal ball gag or purchase one that is custom fitted to you for play!

Conclusion:

Ball gags can open up a world of deep power exchange and possibilities in your BDSM, Fetish and Kink Session with Me. Their versatility, simplicity and safety make them a perfect pick for newbies and pros alike! The experience of wearing a ball gag is all about surrendering control. Your slutty words will get garbled... forcing you to lean on body language and pre established safe word signals. This awesome shift can heighten trust, sensation and hot intimacy in our BDSM scene. Did I mention the drooling?? It's messy, vulnerable and incredibly sexy! This adds an exhilarating touch to our wicked Mistress/ submissivce play session! If you are new and curious or a seasoned kinkster looking to have your limits pushed, I encourage you to reach out and book a session with Me! What are you waiting for, darling? I conveniently offer incall, outcall and online play. Don't hesitate and reach out to Me today.

My Upcoming Incall Dates:

Langley, BC: Nov. 29, 30, Dec 6, 7