Mistress Cali Sinn's 2024 Glossary of Hot BDSM Activities: Part 1

Welcome to Part One of My 2024 BDSM Glossary. This week's teaser is about all the hot kink and fetish activities.that My playmates and I have joyfully indulged in over the past year! I hope My descriptive list sparks your imagination and keeps you hungry for more!

"Follow Me to the dark side... so I can show you what your body was made for, darling!"

24/7: Also known as TPE (Total Power Exchange). This is a Mistress and slave/submissive/ pay pig/ pet/ toilet/ etc. relationship which is effect 24 hours a day. I offer daily texts, chastity, key holding, caging and collaring as a physical embodiment of the unique long term loyalty and commitment required.

Abduction Play: Also known as Kidnapping. A provocative scene where My playmate consensts to being restrained and transported to a new location. Incorporating a mask, such as a gimp mask can enhance the sensorial aspect of the experience. I enjoy transporting My playmates to a descrete indoor or outdoor location, with fun toys ready for use!

Aftercare: While our session is winding down, I open space to manage hygeine as well as care for emotional and physical wellbeing. This practice promotes the release of happy bonding hormones as well as the physiological and spiritual grounding back to reality. During this phase, I encourage a quick rinse in My shower, verbal feedback and enjoy sharing healthy snacks and refreshments.

Age Play: Age regression can occur organically within our dynamic and can be a wonderfully empowering time. Age playe is when My playmate mentally assumes an age that is different that their actual age; often younger, but can be older as well. Age regression can be a common experience for submissives who enter "sub space", especially during longer sessions. It can also be intentional when in role play which involvse a Maternal or erotic hypnosis dynamic.

Anal Training: This pleasurable activity is when I insert gloved digits, butt plugs and dildos of varying lengths and girth into your gorgeous slutty butthole. My goal is to physically understand your current limitations (in the present), share intimacy, inspect, warm up the anus, train, massage the prostate and overall strech the sphinter for enhanced pegging or fisting. Note: The wetter, the better! I love spit and anal lube!

Animal Play: Also known as "pet play, or furry kink". This engaging role play often involves My playmate dressing up as and behaving like an animal (for caretaking, play, feeding and training). Some common themes are an objectified puppy, bunny, kitty and pony.

Bastinado: This is a specific form of impact play, which is "soley" focused on the soles of the feet. Often with a cane implement.

Black Sheet Party: An exclusive BDSM orgy!

Body Worship: Can you think of a better way to begin a play scene! This is when My playmate shows respect and adoration by inhaling, kissing, licking and pleasuring each part of My body. Often focused on My favourite locations and earning more as they behave! Scene setting, fetish play, body fluid, scent play and aftercare are all stages where body worship is demanded!

Bondage: The act of restraining My playmate... either decoratively, temporarily or for a full session! Bondage may refer to total body restraint or a specific limb/ area of the body. This can be done with the use of latex bondage tape, rope, cuffs, furniture, cages and chains.

Bondage and Discipline: This refers to the act of restraint and the addition of physical impact play.

Boot Woship: I have a lovely heel and boot collection, which requires attentive kissing, licking, sucking, cleaning and polishing! Boot worship is when My playmate shows respect and service toward My sensational footwear.

Hint: The way to your busy Mistress' heart is through helpful service!

Brown Shower: Also kown as "scat". However, I prefer the more appropriate term of "caviar". My brown shower play and training is one of My Internationally sought after specialties! This fetish is where I defecate on a toy, My playmates food, body or directly in mouth for intimate worship, sadistic degredation, humiliation, toilet training or feeding.

Breath Play: This is a form of "Edge Play", which can involve considerable physical risk. Therefore, caution must be taken while engaging in this BDSM activity. Breath play is the act of controlling and limiting the breathing of My playmate, within a consenting scene. Prior to and during our session, I perform a complete history and compatibility assessment. There is a definitely a large community of BDSM breath play enthusiasts and custom masks/ gear are available to enhance both the safety and quality of your experience.

Does edge play excite and take your breath away? Image By: Jacob Boavista

Chastity: This is a form of sex ownership, sexual denial or orgasm denial where My playmate is prevented from accessing their genitals. I absolutely enjoy key holding and working with submissives who take the time to find the right devices that fit their cock and lifestyle like a glove!

Checklist: I encourage all of My playmates to list their prefered BDSM activities and rate them on a scale of 1-5. This is helpful for assessing soft limits, hard limits, play style and most importantly - favourite activities to introduce within our session.

Cock Milking: Also known as "Prostate Massage". This is a great activity for enhancing pleasure for an extended period of time. In this erotic activity, I force My playmate to discharge semem through their penis by massaging their prostate!

Consensual Non Consent: A mutal agreement that within pre-defined limits (or a safe word), future consent is granted by my playmate for activities in a power exchange. Some examples include abduction fantasy, pegging, punishment or rape role play.

Corporal Punishment: Often combined with training or humilation, corporal punishment consists of any activity involving discipline via physical punishment (or impact play). Note: Corporal punishment is not to be confused with "funishments", which is a light hearted form of discipline.

Costume Play: The use of costumes in a scene to enhance the "atmosphere" of role play. I love to dress up with My playmates up, before dressing them down! A few highlights in 2024 where costume play amplified our play are in muzzle training My puppy, giving Bill Clinton a golden shower over My Porn Star Experience and feminizing Baphemot in My BDSM Gold Standard experience!

Clowning around at the movie theater for My public food play and golden shower session!

Edge Play: This is categorized as high risk play which pushes the limits of My playmate. Specifiied training, healthy communication, experience and a deep understanding of My Playmat's physical and psychological limitations is a necessity for a positive experience. Some examples of edge play are fire, electricity, breath play and cutting/ blood play. The type that I am trained in, and offer is breath play. Note: edge play is not to be confused with "edging"! (see below).

Edging: This erotic activity is is when My playmate is literally brought to the edge of their orgasm, then denied release. I often repeat this process multiple times. If My playmate is lucky enough to be eventually allowed to cum, their orgasm will be much more intense than usual! If orgasm is denied, My playmate will be put directly into chastity and further sexual frustration!!

Erotic Hypnosis: A naturally flowing and common request in My sessions, where I utilitize My hypno-domme skills to amplify seduction and sensual domination in a scene.

Exhibitionism: Displaying taboo actions or portions of the body. This can be for gratification or for humuliation purposes, at My direction. I often book hotel apartments with a scenic balcony, for the "view"!

Feminization: A common request from playmates who seek an encounter in which they are forced, or willingly dress up in traditionally feminine attire. This can include wigs, high heels, clothes, lingerie and makeup. Some actiities that are often desired in a feminization play session include pegging, anal training, body worship, aftercare and photography.

Figging: I love the spicy act of inserting a prepared finger of ginger root or chili pepper into My playmate's anus. The burning sensation is said to induce intense pleasure. An important cautionary note is to ensure that the root is large and tapered enough to be removed and not able to break apart, tear the delicate lining of the anus, or be pulled into the anus.

Financial Domination: (See "Paypig"). A financial domination relationship is one where My submissive desires to give me money on a regular basis. This may be in the form of online money transfers, or cash meets.

Fire and ice: This form of sensory play involves the use of hot wax alternating with ice or water.

Fluid Exchange: Any activity where bodily fluids are exchanged. This can include mouth-to-mouth, mouth-to-genital, or genital-to-genital. This also includes any contact with blood or the anus. Understanding non negotiable hard limits within safe play, as well as hygeine standards, including regular STI testing are recommended when inquiring about activities involving fluid exchange.

Foot Worship: This is when My playmate ritually respects My feet. Activities that I enjoy are sucking, kissing, washing, pedicures and massages! A fun highlight in 2024 has been deepthroating My deviant playmate with My caviar covered foot during a FTT (Full Toilet Training) session!

Forced Orgasm: An orgasm induced against My playmates will.

Golden Shower: When I urinate directly on My playmate's body, into their open mouth, or into a cup for consumption. This satiates a humiliation, fetish or degredation kink. Some creative golden showers that I have administered over 2024 have been urinating into a funnel that went directly into My submissives gaped open anus! Also, demanding a submissive to piss into his own mouth during a public Humiliatrix session!

Not an Olymic sport yet.. but I have played with some kinksters who definintely could prove that wrong!

Humiliation: This play can take the form of gentle teasing to objectification. Humiliation play is often desired by My playmates and can be used as a memorable tool for pushing limits or administering punishment.

Impact Play: Physical striking with various implements including bare hand OTK (Over the Knee), riding crops, floggers, whips and canes. Different impact play tools vary in intensity and afterglow!

Interrogation Play: Oral questioning that takes the form of a cross examination or psychological torture. This can be a great addition to corporal punishment and administering discipline!

Mummification: Immobilizing the body by wrapping it up, usually with fitted bondage gear, multiple layers of shrink wrap, latex tape or food film. This creates a feeling of total body helplessness. Note: It is always necessary to be attentive and have bandage scissors on hand.

Negotiation: Communication before a scene, or during our intake process that includes discussing our goals, expectations and limits of play. I thoroughly encourage My playmates to be as detailed as possible, as My standard is to offer a high value experience!

Nipple Torture: Pain play directed at My playmates nipples. I may use techniques and devices such as nipple clamps, clothes pins, paddle/ whip/ crop, bare hand, wax or fire and ice.

Objectification: This enjoyable activity is when My playmate is dehumanized and treated as a fuck toy, butt slut, toilet, animal, slave or furniture!

Mindfuck: Psychological domination at its purest! Often used within a role play or fantasy scene. This is when I consensually manipute your perception of reality. Psyc-Dom may be combined with "emotional play", which involves introducting humiliation, fear, shame or other elements that will trigger a powerful emotional release.

Pay Pig: Here piggy.. piggy! A pay pig gets off on online Tribute or ATM cash meets. A form of financial domination. Some kinks and fetishes that i've incorporated in My Pay Piggy relationships are wallet holding, blackmail fantasy, foot worship, chastity, online play and humiliation.

Power Exchange: A consensual and voluntary relationship where I assume authority over My playmate and My playmate yeilds authority.

Queening: Every Queen must have a throne - and what better throne than your perfect face! Pussy and/ or ass smothering can be done in a CFNM (clothed female/ naked male) dynamic, or my favourite - ass to mouth! Restraining, role play or using impact play with My playmate adds some spice to the awesome power exchange dynamic!

Risk Aware Consensual Kink (RACK): Similar to "Safe, Sane, Consensual (SSC). This is a standard of conduct for the healthy and positive enjoyment of BDSM. This model acknowldges that there are always risks in any kink of activity which must be understand and accepted.

Role Play: A scene in which My playmate and I assume roles of a character. This may include "costume play" as an enhancement.

One of My 2024 highlights was dressing up as a sassy clown and using food play with golden shower training to torment My bratty submissive boy toy!

Safe, Sane and Consensual (SSC): A standard of conduct for healthy enjoyment of BDSM, similar to "RACK", but with an emphasis on making any activity as safe and sane as possible.

Scent Play: This is when My playmate inhales the scent of My breath, armpits, anus, and vulva. This often serves for enjoyment/ arousal, and can be used in the dynamic of humilation play.

Sensation Play: BDSM play where the intention is to push My playmate's sensory limits. Some techniques that I may use are light touch, heat/cold, pinwheel, different textures and sensory deprivation.

Sensory Deprivation: Use of various objects such as blindfolds, ear plugs, etc to deprive one or more of My playmate's senses.

Service: Acts, chores, labor, or sexual servicing performed by My submissive for My benefit. Hint: The way to your busy Mistress' heart is through helpful service!

Slave Auction: An event which hosts the "selling", or loaning of a slave to a Dominatrix's social group, or the highest bidder. This can be a role play fantasy or a private BDSM event.

Splooshing: A filthy body fluid fetish where one covers themself in food, liquid, mud, scat or whatever gets your going!

Are you a fan of splooshing in public? It's finger licking good!

Tease and Denial: This is when I keep My playmate aroused and in a cyclical feeling of anticipation and heightened sensitivity. The art of seduction - at it's finest!

Urethral sounding: Play involving inserting smooth, sterile metal rods into the urinary passage. These come in a variety of sizes. Note: it is important to take care of hygeine and prevent possible infection. A playmate should immediately void their bladder to help flush out contaminants.

Watersports: (Also see "Golden Shower"). Urophilia is the art of Golden showers and anything involving the sight, smell or taste of urine.

Watenberg Pinwheel: A small medical grade implement that is affixed to a wheel with dozens of sharp needle-like projections. It is traditionally used by neurologists to test nerve function on the skin and in BDSM for sensation play.

Wrestling: In 2024, I have enojoyed grappling, semi competitive pinning, scissoring, face smothering and of course - pegging play!

The primal struggle of wrestling is physically intoxicaing! Have you tried it?

Wax Play: This popular sensation play activity is where My playmate receives hot wax drippings on their body. Note: Not all candles burn at the same temperature! To prevent dangerous second degree burns, It is important to use low temperature burning candles, such as paraffin wax.

Final thoughts:

As a natural born deviant, polyamorous playmate and lifestyle Mistress, I appreciate both sharing My gifts and nurturing meaningingful connections with My kinky companions. I would love to give you a more "hands-on" lesson in person! If you are intrigued by any specific activities, I strongly encourage you to reach out and explore My decadant Offerings and Holiday Specials! I love playing with newbies seeking to explore, just as much as seasoned players who yearn to push their limits! Loooking forward to hearing from you!

Until next time,

Your fabulous Mistress Cali Sinn, x